Pregnancy is a miraculous time in a woman‘s life, but that does not mean only bells and giggles. It can be uncomfortable at times, and you may find yourself longing for pleasures from your pre pregnancy life you may not have appreciated before. Some you will get back after childbirth, others you will get back with time, and a few you may never see again, depending on different variables.
Here is a select list of things you can kiss goodbye for a while…
Alcohol is off limits for the expecting mom. While it is not the end of the world to give up booze for nine months or so, it can be frustrating for some. There is no way around it other than childbirth. The good news is that it is temporary and your ‘dry’ spell will be over soon.
With pregnancy comes a list of forbidden foods, like sushi, raw meats, soft cheeses and more. It is interesting how our cravings can be for just what we cannot have. Every expecting mom misses one type of food or another. It is important to curb your crabbings and avoid those forbidden foods for the health of your baby. Keep telling yourself it is only for nine months or so…
During the first and third trimesters, you will most likely miss having a good night sleep.
During the first trimester, you will find that you wake up a few times a night to go empty your bladder, or are awakened by leg cramps. Even if you do get a good night sleep, you may find that you are tired ‘for no good reason’. Well, there is a good reason growing inside you that makes your body work around the clock helping your baby develop.
During your second trimester, when you may get some better night sleep, but in the third trimester you will find it even harder than the first trimester to get good night’s rest again. Now you cannot sleep on your back or belly, and it is harder to find a comfortable position to sleep in. Night time trips to the bathroom are back and you may also have strange dreams that will interrupt your sleep.
It may be unpleasant, but there are ways to help you get comfortable and help you get the rest you need. A maternity pillow can help you find a comfortable position. Not drinking right before bed will minimize your need to urinate. And talking to your partner about your dreams, fears and concerns as well as other feelings will help resolve them so they don’t take over your dreams. You will still not get the sleep you used to pre-pregnancy, but at least you will get the rest your body needs.
A normal sense of smell is not something you will enjoy during your pregnancy. Most woman experience a heightened sense of smell due to elevated level of hormones while pregnant. Thankfully, this sensitivity to smells is temporary and will subside after the delivery. In the meantime try to avoid smells that bother you, especially ones that lead to nausea.
Weather you dreamed of being pregnant since you can remember or it caught you by surprise, at some point during these nine months, you will find yourself looking at other women and missing your pre pregnancy body. Some of the changes to your body, other than your growing belly, may surprise you. Expecting moms find that their body is changing in ways they did not expect. Swollen feet, larger breasts, and changing belly button are just a few changes you can expect.
To feel better about yourself and your changing body, make sure to exercise. You will be surprised what a moderate workout can do to both your body and feeling. Dress the part, and enjoy the wanders of makeup. Maternity clothes can make you look sexy, believe it or not. Don’t hide your bump, show it off. Use whatever makes you feel good about yourself.
What are some things / activities you miss now that you are pregnant?